Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Random Musings Before the Trip

We’ve been asked if each trip is easier because we’ve done this before. The answer is both “yes” and “no”. Easier in the sense that we’ve gone through all the paperwork and know what to expect for the most part on that side, and we've been to China before. “No’ because each child is different and brings a new type of expectation and yes, anxiety. Aiden is 7 years old, twice as old as Adam was when we brought him home and more than 4 times older than Makayla. He’ll bring along his own set of expectations and anxieties, none of which we are now privy to. There is a language difference that will be more evident and Jeff realizes that his meager attempt at learning Mandarin will fall woefully short. Aiden will be leaving a place that he has called home to a whole new country, where the people talk different, look different, and probably smell different. He will soon be the stranger in a strange land. And yet, his whole life is ahead of him – filled with new wonders and new joys – and new siblings – one he probably won’t even meet for a year and three others who will be his constant companions.

Aidan is coming home to the home God has called him to. We are so privileged to be that home.


Adam and Makayla were born miles apart and 2 months apart but have been brother and sister for over 1 ½ years. Adoption is amazing. People ask if they are twins. Makayla and her sister Mackenzie are inseparable. They are as close as sisters can be. Adoption is amazing. I had to post this video, (1) to see if I could , and (2) because I am so proud of how Adam and Makayla worked together, Kayla really wanted to score a goal and Adam had been scoring goals all season. We asked him to help his sister out this game. See the results. Yes they have their fights, that is even more evidence that God has brought them together as siblings. We can’t wait for Aiden to be part of all this.

Finally, our pastor preached on Sunday from Mark 9:33-37 (yes we were paying attention!). Mark 9:37 says (Jesus speaking to the disciples after taking a little child in His arms) “Whoever welcomes one of these little children in My name welcomes me…” Thanks Pastor for the confirmation! Off we go!

4 comments:

Mom said...

I'm so excited for you. Have a great time on your adventure and know we are praying for safety and family bonding.
Love you all.
Aunt Lynn

Mama Bench said...

The Benches are praying and so happy for you! Adoption truly is a miracle from God.

Betsy said...

That video is so adorable! I loved to see how Adam helped his sister. What a great brother! I am so excited for you guys and can not wait to see Aiden home with you all.
-Betsy

Ms. Susan said...

ok... I am trying to post again so if you get two you know why. Sat soccer game went very well. We missed Adam but Makayla played very well. She almost scored. She was soaking wet from running so hard. I have Adam's medal and certificate you can pick it up when you get home. I'll see you then. Hope everything is going well for you all, I think of you often. Love, Ms. Susan